My fiancé and I have always had a bit of a thing for exhibitionism/voyeurism and it's continued to grow the more we do it.

We've been considering going to our first club (probably Secrets in Orlando). We plan on just going to have drinks, dance, and watch and be watched, but the possibility for more is still there.

She was initially against any kind of play with anyone else, but has slowly opened up to it as time progresses, but I feel like our criteria may be impossible.

She is definitely not up for any sexual contact between her and another women. This is not going to change. I am wildly turned on by the thought of her with another guy, and she may not be able to handle seeing me with another woman at the moment, so we'd probably be looking for another guy, not a couple. Even though I'd love to share her, I am not into the "cuck" scene. I don't like degradation and humiliation, and don't need or want a "bull" who tries to be dominant and whatnot. She doesn't want this either. She wouldn't be comfortable with kissing (body ok, lips not), and would probably be looking for an age range of around 22-40. We're both in good shape and would want someone in good shape as well. Most important of all though, would have to be someone respectful to both of us, and easy to get along with. Obviously it isn't hard to find a guy willing to fuck a hot 27 year old woman, but realistically, is it at all likely we'd find someone meeting those criteria? I would be involved as well, and not just watching, but both of us are straight so there would be no male/male contact.

If there's any doubt at all, we'd just stick to ourselves and have a good time regardless. We aren't going to seek anyone out, just want to be ready for it if the situation arises in person.