Hey. I had a post up here earlier about my fiance and I (now my wife) about advice on threesomes. I was told to just make a profile for us on some swinger websites listed on the side bar here and I was curious on will us not paying the VIP cost us on making new friends in the swinger lifestyle and maybe finding people to have fun with? Cause I've joined the one listed for younger one I don't remember its name but its the one that starts with the K. I have a few people messaging us and we can't message them back and I tried to message them saying that we can't see their messages and to email us instead. We would just like to know do we have to pay the VIP for any success or should we be fine?