So, wifey and I are long term swingers. We had a great unicorn and a couple we had heaps of fun with. Unicorn fell in love with her other playfriend in January, and covid has restricted travel (couple friends are 600mi/1000km away). So we're in a rut. Been 7 months since any play, things are quiet between us even.

Have matched with a local single lady on Tinder, who's curious (no problem with that, all gotta start somewhere).

There's not really anything on her profile to go off, but being in a rut, can't think of how to start a conversation with her. Don't want to go into sexy talk straight off the bat, as she's not sure if this is what she wants. At the least, I might be able to pick up a FWB from it as she wants fun (wifey has one, only fair)

Any suggestions? It's a group chat.