Question. How common is it to play games in the lifestyle? Whether it be board games, card games, ice breaker games, etc... I'm thinking it has to be getting more common right?

My wife and I started a group in Austin, Tx on Kasidie for "Geeks and Gamers of Austin" and it has seen steady growth and good participation and even events... [i just posted more about that group over here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AustinSwingers/comments/i1df6z/gamergeek_swingers_of_austin_kasidie_group/ ]

Meanwhile, what we have learned in 4 years of doing this lifestyle is this: if we can play a game with you, play an icebreaker game [like our own game: http://justyourtip.com or maybe TheGameofLifestyle], and then move onto playtime... we will probably become long-term FWB with you.... This FWB means we can travel with you, do our FAVORITE thing which is a weekend getaway filled with food, games, sexy time and laughter...

Why does this work and is so effective at making FWB?

Because we have a fun overall time, without drugs or alcohol, and keep you coming back for more... between the mental stimulation [we are very sapiosexual] and the physical stimulation [sexy games leads to massage leads to full-swap]... our friends become our friends, and we all have an ideal weekend!

I am wondering, how common is our situation that games sex=FWB? Do most couples find things they like to do together and then become FWB [even if its not games, is it something else]? What other common fun things you do together can create the FWB bond?

tldr; wife and I love to do a weekend getaway with our FWB where we play board games, enjoy the outdoors, and have multiple sessions of naughty play... how common is this?