So I’m a gay (M) who has had experience with only men. The thought of being sexually involved with a couple has never crossed my mind until a few months ago when an online friend “called me out” for some sexual innuendos that I had apparently made. Iv been told I can be somewhat flirtatious but usually I just think I’m being nice. I never knew this guy was having these thoughts about playing with another guy and I never was given any vibes from him either. So when he hit me up I was caught off guard. The next morning I brought it up again and he said that his interests are still there but that he doesn’t want to talk about it until he talks about it with his wife because He doesn’t want to make it seem like he is going behind her back. His interest lies with a threesome between him his wife and another guy. He has told me he never spoke about these fantasies to anyone other than his wife because he has never found someone that he “felt right” about. I was flattered to be that person I guess. The good thing about this was during around this time I’ve been really wanting to experience being with a woman sexually so it was all good timing. Unfortunately his wife from what I have been told was that she was not in a good state because she didn’t like her body and that she would have been more open to the idea of it had she not had kids. Fortunately recently she has been getting around to being open to the idea again but isn’t fully committed to it just yet. I totally respect their relationship and their pacing for everything. As I’ve educated myself more on this lifestyle I have taken an interest about the idea of being a unicorn and more specifically being their unicorn. Their was a period in time where We did not speak to eachother for about a month but now we are back to being online buddies and there hasn’t been any conversation about that night when everything was first brought up. My question is how can I bring this conversation up to him again then bring up the idea of the unicorn while also not seeming to pushy but also providing the space, time and respect between them.