Wife and I got a 30-day free pass to Kasidie (most popular where we live) and I swear not one profile has changed in a year. What's going on people? LOL! Same pictures you've been using for ten years now. Same profiles still saying, "Just dipping our toes in" and "Looking to spice things up". If you've been on a year or more and still looking for these with your ten year old or more profile pics, that likely explains all the "No thanks" replies you get.

Even a couple we went on a date with that ended with us politely, but firmly, telling them that they lied in their profile by putting up pics of them in their 20's - when they were easily mid to late forties - still had the same exact profile and even contacted us with the same pictures in their message.

If you've gained a few pounds over the years, accept it, the people on the other end likely have as well. Own that Buddha belly. If you've aged a year, guess what? Everyone has!

Selling yourselves as 20 when you're clearly pushing 50 is no way to go through life.

So take the Spring cleaning online and update that profile!