My wife has a big test for a certification she’s been taking classes for coming up in July. She’s been under a lot of stress between work and school and this test is weighing heavily on her mind so we decided maybe it would be best if she took a break from us meeting with people until the test is over.

Being that she’s going to be super busy for the next 5 months, she’s cool with me finding play partners (couples or lifestyle-friendly SFs). I’ve played solo before but it was never something I was actively looking for, it just came up with couples we had already met with who also happened to like MFM.

Any advice from husbands who have a hall pass? How do you approach the subject with couples? Any tips for how to create your profile so it doesn’t sound like I’m just a husband cheating on his wife?? That’s totally not the case. Am I barking up the wrong tree here and my chances are slim to none or do couples like married men (you know, I’m “safe” because I’m not gonna fall in love with anybody and I have an amazing sex life with my wife so I’m not just a sex-starved horndog 🤣)?

Being honest with myself, I know that we draw in couples because of my wife and that some people will be disappointed to find out she’s not part of the equation right now. I don’t expect to get the kind of attention that she gets, but I’m hopeful that I can find a few good couples to enjoy until she’s ready to get back into the game!

Anyone else have experience with this? I’d love to hear your thoughts.