Finding the right group is hard, don’t you agree? But patience is a virtue. So talk to me nice on the post, please..... we are young, thrill seekers and very social. It seems as if the groups that we have have found that I am more desired than my husband. Why is that so? I’ve notice on all the swing apps the females are the more desired individuals. I have posted about finding another female in the past, however I wouldn’t mind if it was a couple. Is it normal for others to expect me to play while my husband sits on the sidelines? The last three interactions was basically “my wife and I only want you.” If I don’t say so my self, my husband is fine. And I can back that up from all the girls in public flirting with him.