So yesterday I reached out to a female friend that we’ve known for a long time but that we haven’t spoken to for months. Just a “hey how’ve you been?” Her response “wow. I was just thinking about you two!”

Now it’s important to know I met this woman before I met my wife. I pursued her romantically for a short time before we friend zoned each other. They’ve since been introduced. She is one of a very few people outside the lifestyle that knows of our sexy secret.

I asked her in what context she thought about us. I was expecting a holiday greeting or a question about the kids. Imagine my surprise when she responded “Because I haven’t had sex in a long time and I thought you two might be able to help me with that”.

Immediately I have to shift into a different mode and I visualize myself encountering a completely untamed unicorn in a forest glen, lol. Arms extended, I approach slowly. “Easy...easy there”.

Anyway the conversation is creeping forward slowly. We will see what happens. I’m hopeful that we don’t screw it up! We also want to ensure she’s in a good place and that play would be right for us all. Just the idea of us pleasing this pretty lady together and helping her out through orgasms is so hot!

Has this happened to others? Do your vanilla friends ever approach you as a sex advice or play resource because they know of your open & accepting nature?