I have to say the Lifestyle can be a cold place.
Regardless of who reaches out to us we try to reply with some grace and decent manners. It costs us nothing to treat people the way we’d like to be treated. I mean, it’s a small world and we will likely bump into a lot of these people in the future.
We frequently run into another way of behaving though. The stone cold route of just ghosting on people. Ignoring messages. Blowing off dates...
I know I know, this is how it is. It doesn’t have to be though.
To add on to that, if you’ve fucked one of us before and we all parted as friends, the courtesy of a response is absolutely required.
Our experience too. Shameful. I think by nature the lifestyle draws in people that play with the fantasy side but can’t step into the reality so they run.
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Us too. Unfortunately we don’t get out as often as we’d like so we are left trying to coordinate online for fun on our few outings. Kinda forced to deal with the online bullshit.