We've been playing with other couples, single guys, and going to clubs for the past 7 years, and have always just been into soft swapping. We've known for years that it was just a matter of time before we decided to do a full swap, but we wanted to make sure that for our first time we found just the right couple.

We had considered it with other couples in the past, but sometimes they weren't into doing a full swap, and with other couples we've been with it felt like one of us would have had to be taking one for the team.

So finally, last night after doublelist and swingersr4r failed us, we decided to try our luck at the club again. We had made up our minds that we weren't going to get desperate and were only going to play if we found just the right couple. Otherwise, we were content to just dance and have a good time. But, sure enough, a smoking hot couple came in that was significantly older than our typical age range. We danced and chatted with them and pretty quickly realized that they were exactly what we've been waiting for. They had been married long enough and had played enough times before that we weren't worried about drama, there was mutual attraction all around, and they were completely willing to be patient with us for our first time.

After the night was over and they left, we talked about it and realized that in the end, it didn't feel any weirder to us than any of the soft swapping we had done over the years. Either way, it was just sex and it was all about having fun.