I’ve read so many posts where everyone makes their own rules on how to play as a couple. One rule I’ve read, is no kissing on the mouth with another person. It’s a rule my gf and I also have.

This weekend at the club, we did some soft swap, the other couple wanted to kiss both of us on the mouth. We told them our rule of no kissing. They were very respectful and obliged. At one point, the girl says to me, “so you let me give you head, but you can’t kiss me?” And I said, “I understand your point, it’s a great question, and for now, it’s a rule we have. I know it’s backwards, but I’m respecting our rules”.

On the way home from the club my gf and I were talking and laughing at how backwards those rules are. And those rules don’t apply if she kisses another girl. She is bi-curious, so she’s exploring. We are new to the lifestyle and for now, those rules work for us. We may revisit them at some point, but for now, we are happy to just kiss each other, and we enjoy it tremendously!

And also, how do you kiss someone who you’ve seen blow a couple guys and girls??

Your thoughts?