As a single male in the lifestyle I’ve seen a lot of crazy stuff. Even when I was part of a couple there were a lot of WTF moments I can remember.

This happened a while back but I never had a place to post or discuss it till here.

So this couple I meet in SLS I had read their profile and they seem like nice regular people, older then me but I’m attracted to older women so that wasn’t an issue. I always look for any red flags on profiles but honestly found now with these guys not to mention they were actually not that far away from me.

During our chats (with the male, who was the one that sets up the dates) we did the usual talked about likes dislikes do’s and don’ts and we seemed in the same page. Exchanged pictures of me and my cock for her approval and pictures of her body for mine. He was straight had no interesting joining in just wanted to watch her in action. I usually have no problem if the husband/boyfriend wants to join in the fun as honestly I’m lucky to be allowed to play with the wife/girlfriend but I do like a bit of notice that it can or possibly will happen, nothing worse that having a cock appear next to you out of nowhere.

Anyway this guy was 100% not interested in getting involved only watching. So I get to their place we all chat have some wine, she’s a bit shy but loves my humor and it’s not long before were kissing and then headed upstairs to the bedroom.

She changes into her sexy little outfit and undresses me and we go from some foreplay to the main action, all the while he’s watching the most interaction he has is holding her hair back during the bj. Now we’re in the bed and he gets in one side sitting while we’re going at it on the other side.

At some point I feel a hand rubbing the top of my head and assume it’s hers until realize she has both hands and legs wrapped around me......... so it’s him.... he’s doing it??? I figure ok no big deal I look at it as the guys/husbands that like to hi five me or give me a pound or pat on the shoulder while I’m with the woman.

Finally she gets on top and rides me till we both cum and rolls off laying next to me for a bit then gets up to go to the bathroom to cleanup. So I’m laying there when out of nowhere the guy reaches over grabs my cock firmly and pulls the condom off smiling and says I’ll get that for you. I’m left there eyes wide open just dazed like WTF did he just do?

I honestly did not know how to react to what had just happened, so I got dressed said my goodbyes and left I felt a bit violated and ashamed for not reacting in a why I assumed I would have acted in that situation I actually stopped meeting new people for a year after that

I never accepted a request to join them again

Just needed to get that off my chest and see if anyone else has experienced stuff like that