Hello you sexy mofos!

Kind of piggy backing on an earlier post about how a gal felt like she could let loose from all the wife/mom/work roles that she plays, and embrace the sexy side of things was great for her.

This is a challenge for my wife, the few times we’ve actually pulled off the swinging thing have been as much about her being able to let go & just have fun as anything else. She recently said she has trouble “shifting gears” just in regular life... as in, she’ll be in the middle of a phone call, but then one of the kids need something, and she gets discombobulated. Even more so to finally get the kids off to bed & she’s ready to stream a movie, while I’m hoping to explore/initiate a new connection or two on Kik or Kasidie.

So I guess the question is... what do YOU do to help you (or your partner) shift gears from the hubbub of life to the more sexually adventurous sides.

(Side note, we have good communication and are working on it ourselves, just was wanting other perspectives too!)