Last post, I wrote about how we drove home from a date, with my wife having stress issues... https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/cigokk/how_to_get_things_started_on_a_date/

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Yesterday, we had the follow up date. Before heading to the couple, we went to a restaurant and had a great meal first. We had a few drinks and I tried to set my wife at ease before going there. This time, they invited us in their house (not the poolhouse like last time). We started talking about our lives, jobs and kids. After last date, my wife and I agreed to start some touching eachother during the conversation. The other couple must have had the same conversation, because they did the same. It was all very subtle, but it was clear everyone was in the mood for more. We continued talking about all sort of vanilla stuff and slowely evolved in exchanging experiences in the LS. Soon things escalated and before we knew it the women had their clothes off. My wife went to the toilet and came back with her dress in her hands. We had an amazing soft swap. Eventhough the other couple had to work the next day, we couldn't seem to get enough of eachother and stayed there way to long. Unfortunately, I experienced some ED, but both women succeeded to get me hard with a blowjob. I didn't come, but this wasn't an issue for me. After some time, even toys were used by our women and my wife had her second experience with another woman. First time was some soft kissing and touching, but this time she also used her toy on the other. I sure hope I can keep the memory vivid for a long time! Although we're soft swap, we agreed on going further on a next date with this couple.

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Big thank you for all the positive feedback we got and hope this inspires other people who've had the same anxiety issues my wife had last time.