My husband and I [m32f31] just landed back from an awesome week at an all inclusive adults only resort in Jamaica (sadly not Hedo)!! We are relatively new to the lifestyle but had something interesting happen while we were there. So obviously we are very open with our sexuality even in a vanilla setting as I assume most of this resort was. Anyways we established a group of couples that we would hangout with in the evening by the bar or at the night club and there was one male who tagged along and was there by himself. And on day 3 he approached us and told us he had seen my husband fingering me under my dress at the bar the night before and assumed we were swingers because of that. We didn’t deny or confirm even when he asked my husband if he could watch us again in private (we declined that fast as he’d been talking about all the drugs he’d been doing since he got there). Well we were then told by the 3 other couples that he had told them all that we were swingers earlier that day as well!! We brushed it off because we will never see these people again and had an amazing week but still we were taken back by the whole thing. Has anyone ever approached you and just out right asked you, is this a common thing?