As we don't want males to contact us (time wasting), we've changed our security settings so they can't contact us. Apparently this doesn't work, because they still like and send us mails. Same thing for trial members... Are we doing something wrong or is this function buggy? I would think if the slider is green, it's activated. Anyone who knows how this works , please enlighten us :-)

Edit: We don't want to be disrespectful to single men. We aren't just into that part of the lifestyle. When we contact a couple that we're interested in, we always read the profile before sending a mail. The annoyance of our profile not being read, also counts for numerous couples...