We are a discreet but experienced couple, In a community where discretion remains a priority for us. We’re in a decent sized (~700k population) community. There are no clubs or large groups in our area. We’d probably set this up using the ‘hot date’ feature on SLS.

We’re considering setting up a once-a-month meetup at a local bar/restaurant. Potentially we’d change venues periodically. We’d like to do it sort of ‘no-host’ style, meaning that we sort of ‘set the venue’ but aren’t necessarily committed to being the first to arrive or the last to leave.

Wondering if anyone out there has had experience with similar events in your local community, what works well and what doesn’t work at all. Do you need a venue with a private area? What’s the worst that can happen? Appreciate all info and advice.