The wife and I always practice safe sex for anal and vaginal penetration. We do without for oral which i hear is standard, but it still seems inadequate. After meeting anyone for fun theres always some stress about whether or not the other party was honest about their sexual status and then every little health anomaly becomes an STD in our mind for like three months until we get our, so far, negative test results. I wanna keep doing what were doing, but im looking to adopt some more practices or screenings that will keep us safer than how we already play.

Are there any special screenings or rules you can recommend to keep us safer? Seen post from long time veterans of the lifestyle that have never caught anything in decades of playing, whats your secret?