My wife and I have been struggling a bit with finding someone for a threesome. We have been in the lifestyle for a couple years now.

It seems that there are a ton of guys that like to talk the talk but when it comes to walking the walk, they ghost or struggle to perform

It seems it has been happening to us a lot lately. Our last two experiences, the guy could not perform and one was very undersized which was a disappointment to my wife( she is a little bit of a size queen). We have also had quite a few schedule with us but then no show and disappear. We had another one that agreed to our boundaries of this is something we do together, knew what we wanted and after my wife went and met him, he decided he wanted to be with her all alone.

It has been very frustrating to the point where we are thinking of taking a break from everything. We still have not had that true experience that we have been looking to add of a mfm threesome where the wife is the center of attention.

Just venting. Anyone gone through similar things?