We're not going now but despite being blown away by this, we're wondering if this was normal? We're actually pretty pissed at it all with this guy and the other host. I sent them a message and they were all, "it's okay, they won't tell anyone". We don't know them.

We can't go because we have to be 100% secretive about this - no room to give here, you don't fuck with a UCMJ. If it were a mixed party from the get go, maybe, but the kik and Facebook groups are all obviously swingers.

With the Facebook and kik stuff we're good. We signed up with our lifestyle profile - no names, no faces, different locations, and all that. In the group we had used our real first names on comments but I scrubbed all of our stuff before leaving.

Just feeling salty over it. Ruined our plans.