We’ve been in the LS for about three years. We’ve been to Desire many times, we regularly attend sex clubs both locally and sometimes when we travel. Needless to say we know the LS culture and have a great time. Recently my wife believes there is a bias toward straight women in the lifestyle. Seems like 80% or more of profiles says the female is “bi comfortable” to full on “bisexual”. She sometimes feels like the odd woman out at a club when many of the girls are playing. I thought it was it funny watching all of the husbands huddled together and watching. We always thought the LS was a team sport! She’s not offended by it and she’s not opposed to a little female light touching or kissing but definitely no oral. Is the LS a haven for closet bi women? Do some women just do it for the shock and show value? Is it a dealbreaker if a couple’s profile says the female is straight?

We’d love to hear your thoughts.

Edit: We meant bias against straight women. Sorry for the confusion. We appreciate everyone’s thoughts so far. We believe the people in the LS are some of the best and most honest people we’ve ever met both straight and bi :-)!! Thanks to all for sharing!