They’re called unicorns for a reason. For most of us in the community it seems to be almost impossible to find a single female to join you.
But why?
I could send my wife out for 10 minutes and she’d come back with 5 guys ready to do anything. Are single females really that hard to find? Is it a stigma?
Just curious why we think this is?
I think it's difficult early on as that is what many new couples are only looking for. But after you've been swinging for a while; you start to meet them, you get introduced to them, the wife of a couple you've played with has a hall pass, etc.
For us, it was probably 18 months of swinging before we played with our first unicorn. Since then, we have met and played with many. Most are awesome, fun, attractive, sex-positive women.
They're out there. Be patient. Be kind. And don't just limit yourself to a single female and it will all come together eventually.
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