Only in the last couple of months, we went from a boring bedroom routine to exploring fantasies and generally switching the sexyness to high gear.

In the past, talking about sex was difficult and shallow. We have opened up so much more.

One of the fantasies we recently shared is being watched while going to town on each other. We asked ourselves how and if we should try to realize this.

She uses my tablet while watching TV and is completly oblivious to things like browser history. When looking up something, i stumbled upon searches for and visits to swinger club sites. I did not tell her I noticed.

This weekend, after a steamy session, she actually mentioned that we should research the possibilities and that maybe a classy club could be something to consider.

Here's the question. Is it a plausible idea to visit a club with the intention of only playing with each other? Inviting or joining others is a bridge too far for the moment.