Have known from a young age that i was bi due to certain circumstances. For me im not necessarily attracted to men and basically just want to have fun with them. I have been married to an awesome wife for 8 yrs now & recently got into the LS lifestyle with her. Im fairly comfortable her topping me with a strap on, etc. I think, key word think i would be comfortable doing something alone with a guy as well, but the thought of having 2 ppl watching me be... guess you could say... "the bitch" lol is really uncomfortable for me.

I have no idea how to get past it. I've read a few things where they say "just do it!" but that is certainly easier said than done. Im not looking for the miracle answer or anything just some good advice on how to get past the un-comfortableness. We did have a nice guy we did a glory hole with a few times and that was pretty easy for me. Keep in mind im not the outgoing lets just meet everyone type of guy, more the i get to know you i warm up. but in same sense have no desire to want to get to know a guy for us to do bi stuff with. Its really confusing for me and a bit of a struggle. I really want to overcome this so that we can both have equal fun and as much as she wants me to do it do too. Any advice/help?

EDIT: Not being attracted to other guys i mean, i don't look at a guy and say, "oh he is hot!" i mainly just want the D. That's where my interest is.