So these "munches" groups..... I see them talked about and advertised on swinger groups and sites all the time, but every time I've looked at going to a meet and greet, they're 100% kink focused and the couples are not what we'd consider swingers.

I chatted with a few on Fetlife a while back and they said that if you swing, great, but if you aren't into kink then munches are not for us. I'm puzzled by this. They all seem very open to different sex styles but from what I can tell, they have no more to do with swinging then, say, monogamy does (just another preference they are open to) but I see them ALL THE TIME recruiting on swing sites. Is there a secret non-fetish, non-kink, swinger area? Seems counterintuitive to the whole website name, FetLife, but who knows.

I feel that this is either just our area, we are missing something, or maybe these munches groups aren't swing related at all?