The emotional intimacy and connection is a big part of what makes it hot for her.

She’s also open to straight up fucking, but that’s not her greatest desire.

Y’all come across this before? Should I be concerned that emotional connection sex=problems for our marriage?

Truth is, I find it all pretty hot. I’d love to see her getting fucked and seeing her more turned on and engaged potentially makes it even hotter.

Just to be clear, she’s not asking for a hall pass.

I’m looking for reflections and advice based on others’ experiences.

We haven’t brought in any outside partners yet. But have been texting and corresponding with folks and she’s built quite an attraction to one particular man whom she’s never met or spoken with.