Theres a lot of useless information so you might want to skip to " THE NEXT DAY" I'll also put a TLDR.

Hey, so on Saturday night I made a post about my girlfriend going to Club Joi in LA alone. This was our first step towards opening our relationship after years together. She went without me for 2 reasons: 1) I feel more excited to get into this, so having her test the waters without feeling like she was letting me down if she went at a slower pace seemed like the best move to start. 2) Single ladies get in free, and we thought it would be better for her to check things out before committing a bunch of money.

Onto the event. She took an uber to the club around 11, sent me a text letting me know she made it, and then communication stopped. The plan was that I would pick her up around 1 unless she called to get picked up sooner(which she thought was likely since she was a little anxious). I didn't hear from her at all so I made my way over around 1:30. Around 1:50 I sent a text saying I was outside but not to rush, to which she responded "I just found a couple thats down". I immediately texted back " Down for what?"

I got no response for 30 minutes. At first I assumed she was just talking, but as time went on I found myself feeling both excited and nauseas, stuck outside of a place where my girlfriend could be busy in any number of ways. Finally, she texts back " A bunch of people tried to get me to leave with them, they were down to have an after party. I'll be out in a minute." After another 5 minutes she comes outside. We kiss, she says she had a good time, we walk across the street to my car and she sits on the curb and pees. She was wasted, and as soon as she finished peeing in the street she loses any ability to communicate and is vomiting every 5 minutes for the rest of the night. I couldn't get any information out of her until the next day.

THE NEXT DAY I get the story. It turns out that she went in, looked around for a while and was disappointed that she didn't see any sex happening. After a while she started dancing, and was joined by a couple for a while, then their friends. She kissed a girl for the first time and felt both of their naughty parts over their clothing, and later she met another girl who she also kissed. She got both of their numbers and then came outside. I was a little relieved but also a little disappointed. I'm not sure where things will go from here but we're both glad she went.

We did talk about her going again this weekend and possibly trying to take things a little further with a guy, but she is nervous about upsetting his girl because I wont be there to swap. Is this something that wpuld really be a problem?

TLDR; She made out with some girls and got a couple handfuls but we dont know if she's coming back for more.

Thanks for the read, sorry I'm not the greatest storyteller!