So I recently got out of a year long relationship and got her interested in group play. I've had experience playing with other couples and had a second partner before where we had a few ffms.

I'm a younger guy in my 20s. I've begun talking to a few girls from the normal dating apps and been on a few dates. Honestly though, Im willing to wait to meet someone who shares my interest for the lifestyle.

I don't want to invest the time, money, (holy crap it's expensive to be back on the dating game), or waste the other girls time by going 5-10 dates (including the probable sexual encounters) before I end up finding out this guy has no propensity or interest for trying group play.

So what topics or questions could I bring up to try to fish out if a woman may be interested? Any particular ways to try to learn if someone is bi sexual?

Usually I'll try to move topics while laying in bed towards "what's your fantasy" or something along those lines. But it doesn't always get there until a few weeks or months in.