We're going to start reaching out through these platforms as others have said they've had good luck. We're 100% comfortable with our joint profiles but we have no idea if what we're doing there crosses over to single accounts.

Our goals are the same (SM's, Couples, Unicorns, and each of us playing on our own. No poly.)

Do we list on our profiles that we're married? I feel that if he does, he'll never get a positive swipe (is that a left or right?). I don't think it'll matter much for me. Of course this would come up in conversations and be disclosed almost immediately. But we've been told that it's like fishing; you have to at least get them to look at the bait. Lol.

Another question is about pictures. On swinger sites we're good to put face pics and all that. But since these platforms seem to be primarily for dating, we're concerned friends, family, coworkers and bosses will see it. Is it okay to put up just body shots? Is there another option here that I'm not seeing?

Anyone have some examples or tips that have worked for you?

TYIA