Some backstory before I get to the question. After talking to this "unicorn" for a couple days and agreeing to the meeting place and time I booked the non refundable room. Then comes election morning when I informed her that I don't vote because of the electoral college (ironic, huh?). She responded by saying that scared her away a little and we never heard from her again.        

Since the room was close to another couple we talked with on AFF months ago, I got in contact with them a couple of days later. We normally like to talk online for a couple of weeks before meeting anyone. Talk about the normal things: What everyone likes, what's off limits, even some personal life stuff if they want. Even in the 2 or so days of we did the normal routine.

With that information in everyone's mind, when it's time to meet and get started we normal go with the flow and don't really have a "game plan" in mind. Even though the first meeting went well, the male half of the couple keeps asking me about what positions and combinations do we want to do next time.

Finally the question, I swear I didn't mean to make this post so long, how do you swing? Do you plan things out ahead of time and know which positions you want to do? Or are you the laid back go with the flow type?