We all know about not taking one for the team as a couple but what if we are both on board getting with a couple and we feel the a member of the other couple is taking one for the team (their team). Our question is how would you handle it.

We met a couple at an event and had a great initial meeting. We made plans to meet up later in the evening and met them at the bar where dancing was going on. It was obvious that one of them really wanted to get with us but it seemed like the other half was not that interested. The other half spent time talking with others. We were about to go when the person that wanted to get with us went to talk to the other half a bit. They returned and the other half became more talkative but it seemed strained. We sensed the one that wanted to get with us asked the other half do this but we were not sure. We were trying to think of a way to bring it to closure but could not think of one on the spur of the moment. We had our play time but it seemed strained for the other half and as such, not a great time for us either.

So our question is - while we would never take one for the team, how would you handle a situation where you sense that is what is happening on their team?