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Getting un-matched/blocked for asking to speak with both halves of the couple
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Greetings!
For context, I'm a 40M, been swinging for a couple years now. Occasionally, I'm asked about dates/playtime with couples. The initial conversation starts out well, but when I say I'd like to talk with both parts of the couple (enthusiastic consent is a huge deal for me), they end the conversation without saying anything.
I've been pondering why this is. One of the couples actually did explain that, in their case, it was a Dom/sub thing and the Dom would choose partners for the sub. The sub had no say. Is this common? I'm not comfortable with that idea, but everyone has their thing.
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