so a few months ago i had some fun with a swinger couple, the wife likes DP and the husband like giving me oral, afterwards they asked me for my number i was like sure why not

for the next few weeks life was hell for me, i got sick twice, depression and everything else just happened to where i have to reject them for sex, finally the wife told me she feels unsexy and upset because i keep rejecting them. I feel terrible but also confused why someone hot as her consistently keeps texting me?

i’m not a bull(6 inch) i’m average looking and have a skinny body, when we tried DP we couldn’t even do it because i couldn’t keep it hard enough and i didn’t make her cum, i came into her husbands mouth which she really liked but that’s the only thing that i did right that night which she can find anyone to do that for them online plus more and she has, so why still keep my number?

is lack of validation from a single guy that important for hotwives? maybe i’m the first guy that told her no since most guys will say yes to free sex with nsa?

edit: maybe this is the wrong question for this place because i’m also not very good with women, i know from podcasts that women gets crazy and clingy if you reject them when they are used to getting what they want all the time but idk if this is the case if so it’s a scary feeling for me