Hey all. F47 here.

Last weekend, hubby (M50) and I got together with a new couple we had connected with and chatted with extensively before meeting. We seemed to have great virtual communication and great interpersonal connection when we met for the first time in person, at their place. They are both super easy going, made us feel comfortable and were happy to share their lifestyle experiences with us, which was so nice.

The second meeting was clearly to get down and dirty, since we all felt comfortable with each other. We got together once again at their place, bringing snacks and drinks as well as sexy outfits, as requested by the boys, to enjoy a hot evening with an experienced couple.

What ended up happening was somewhat disappointing although thinking back, we should have known better. In our virtual discussions, I recall that he mentioned really loving the cuckold scenario, and that in the past, it had caused some friction because he tended to sit back and watch his gf get railed by the other guy, but didn’t pay much attention to the other lady. According to them, this was an “old problem” they had gotten around.

Well, turns out it was still a current issue. 😑 Though hubby and I both tried to initiate play with the gorgeous lady, she seemed hesitant to touch my hubby. She and I played together a little, mostly oral, but again she seemed unsure. At some point we got into FMF sort of situation with her going down on my hubby and me sitting on his face; when I turned around to bring the other guy into play with us, I saw him sitting on a chair in the corner, stroking himself.

His gf did try to go over to him several times to get him going but he seemed either too interested in sniffing poppers, or only interested in seeing her play with others, and definitely not hard at all.

it should also be noted that both he and her used a good amount of recreational drugs throughout the evening (ket, E, poppers, etc), while hubby and I took a small shroom chocolate (250 mg). His level of intoxication so bad at some point that he was lying there with a blanket over him, with a bad headache.

In the end, after several hours of kissing, oral and manual stimulation, I was feeling pent up sexually, so I asked hubby to fuck me in front of them, thinking it might get them going…but it never did. He ended up walking out and leaving his partner there alone, which was so awkward and unfair for her.

At 4:30 AM, we ended up calling it at night and had the option of staying over but we had to leave to go take care of our pup. We messaged them the next day, thanking them for their hospitality and leaving the door open for a conversation about the evening, but they haven’t responded to us since that night, 4 days ago.

Sooo lesson learned: we need to really ensure that the sexual compatibility (in all its details) are discussed beforehand to avoid this kind of confusion.

Oyah and easy does it on the drugs man 🤦🏻‍♀️