So me and my girlfriend (or now ex girlfriend) recently broke up almost a month ago. Right before we broke up we had been swinging a little bit. The swinging is what killed our relationship. After taking some time trying to heal I realized she wasn’t the girl for me anyways. But I don’t know if I’ll be able to find a girl that is okay with this lifestyle, it seems like as a man, even mentioning that I’m into this will scare every girl away. But I do want a girl that is just as much into threesomes and foursomes as I am. The last group session me and my ex had was us two and 2 other girls and 1 other guy. At some point the other 2 girls got tired and then it was me and my ex and the other guy and I loved it. I like the freedom and everyone enjoying eachother and having a connection with no strings. So I guess I’m not looking for a serious relationship but more of a partner in crime. But yeah, seems almost like, by me being a male everyone will just assume I’m a horny freak. Any suggestions on where I should look and how I should go about this?