A few years back my girlfriend and I(45m) were invited into a small swinging group of friends. We went to quite a few parties and I had a blast. Definitiely solidified my preferred lifestyle. When my girlfriend and I broke up however, they uninvited me from the group but kept her around.
Since then, I've really want to get back into swinging but it seems impossible to find a partner willing to do the same. Every time I hear about a swinging event or group it always seems to have the same prohibitive rule "No single males". I just moved to the Phoenix area and it seems to have somewhat of a swinger culture around but I just really don't know how to break in.
Well, SMs are not swingers to begin with. Just single guys that want to fuck someoneās wife.
On the swinger websites you can find women interested or active in LS. Try and date one of them.
Say what you want, but the reality is that a single male doesnāt āswingā. The reality is that their goal in being at a Lifestyle party is to fuck someoneās wife. If thatās your thing, go for it. But letās not pretend thatās not the goal. Otherwise, just go pick up a woman at a bar.
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Yes and no. Single women are called unicorns. Most Unicorns are bisexual and I tend to have sex with both halves of the couple. Most single males are just there to fuck someoneās wife.