So my (44m) wife (42f) and I have discussed the possibility of swinging or mostly just running a gang bang on her. We think is a super hot fantasy, but she does not think we’d ever be able to go through with it. I think I’d be ok with it personally, but she’s very hesitant. The other night I found out she masturbats to threesome and gamgbang porn. Which is the same thing I watch. So I feel like we are moving in that direction slowly. My question is, what would be the next step? Honestly, the thought of her being completely enveloped with men pleasing her is a huge turn on, and I want to go through with it. I just don’t know where to go next with the fantasy to ease her into it. The catch is that we are both plus sized and she is SUPER self conscious because of it. I don’t give a shit honestly, I figure people will be respectful, and if they’re into it they’ll approach us. If not, they will stay clear. How do I take the next step and let her know it’s ok if we are not everyone’s “cup of tea”. Thanks