So my wife and I have been using toys more and more during sex and she often talks about “making new friends and inviting them.” I’ve mentioned swinging or another couple involved and she seems very open to it. She won’t say it directly but during sex once in a while she’ll talk about having someone inside her while she gives me oral or she’ll mention another female getting her off while she gives me oral. The most we’ve actually sat and had a convo about is having sex while another couple has sex in the same room and we just kind of get off on the other couple having sex in the same room. Is that a thing? Any bit of advice helps. I don’t have friends in the lifestyle so I figured here would be a good place to ask. Thanks everyone.