So my partner (f) says good sex is when she orgasms. That's her goal. But her history of sex has shown her that it's not that common and most men are sht at sex. She even broke up with one boyfriend by walking out screaming just try make me cum you selfish bastard! :-) Anyway so what we are after in Swinging is first and foremost a good fk. So questions - probably more towards the ladies 1. What is good sex for you? 2. Do you get that in Swinging? 3. Is having an orgasm your main priority or is it just about the experience. My partner says all women she knows is like her. They just want to cum. I'm not sure that's true. Is it? 4. Is demanding to orgasm too high a bar and she should just enjoy the experience and not the goal 4. Everyone says sex with thier partner is the best and swinging is just an add on. Be truthful is that true? Have you come across someone that was just much better. And don't cop out with the it's just different. I'm talking it's clear cut they rocked yr world and your partner will never fk you like that. 5. Any tips? Like how to find someone that's good at sex. I guess this is impossible. 6. Do you think the average Swingers are better than the average Joe?

Anything you want to add about actual sex and not the where to meet, which club is best etc go at it