As far as little gestures here's my favorite and the one that annoyed me the most

I love lingerie, it makes me feel super sexy. I'm pretty obsessed with it. I dont think most of the men I'm with ever bother looking at what I'm wearing, they are too busy taking it off. A few times I've tried to pause things and take my clothes off as a show, but I'm really really not great at the strip tease thing, so I've just decided the lingerie is for me and I wont worry that the guys never seem to look at it.

The first time I was with one guy, he took off my shirt, admired my bra and then slowly took off my pants, said "wow" the took lifted my hand like we were dancing and twirled me around and said "thats absolutely spectacular" and kept it on for all the foreplay that it worked with. I loved that!

As far as the worst, I had just spent about 4 hours on a date without my hubby with a single guy we had been playing with for about 6 months (my hubby was with a date as well) and i had an awesome time (even though me and my hubby agreed we are sticking together in the future). It was kinda a big deal to that, and the guy knew it was our first time trying that, and the guy had repeatedly asked if he could be with me that evening.

In the morning I sent him this message "I loved whatever you did last night, you were amazing, and i don't really remember anything other than cumming forever and it being wonderful. Thanks you!"

He responded "I hadn't slept in a week I don't remember much"

The me being unremarkable response didn't land well, but then to top it off his girlfriend (i had no idea he had a girlfriend, he screws about a dozen new people a month) calls me that night asking me to explain the message, and hes trying to talk his way out of it, even though we have months of messages talking about sex and nude pics and videos he had sent.

The next morning he chastised ME and told me I had to be more careful about what I texted him. I had 0 idea he was hiding anything, and the fact he was (and that he cant remember me) killed all the attraction i had for him.

Do you have any moments that blew you away, good or bad?