Hello everyone! We are venturing to an area club tonight for the first time. One thing we are very interested in is playing with a single woman. For our first time, a sexy make out sesh would be a great way to dip our toes in, and maybe come away with a new friend.

As total newbies, what tips would you give us? Should we be very upfront about our wants and boundaries? What are the biggest turn ons and turn offs you’ve experienced when approached by a couple? Is it better for the woman half of the couple to do the initial approach?

Most of all we want to make sure we are respectful. We accept we’ll be a bit awkward and that’s fine. And of course we know we likely won’t find what we’re looking for tonight, but we would rather not miss the chance if we encounter one.