Have you been shamed? Have you had someone you know personally or anyone outside the lifestyle who found out you where in it and shamed you.
My example is a friend finding out about me being a 3rd for couples and said that's disgusting but is totally ok with our other friend who cheated on their wife and knocked someone up.
Also will add I've met other people justify cheating over this
Yup, made the mistake early on of telling some close friends. Some were ok with it, one was definitely not. She said she was uncomfortable hanging out with me and my husband. She was worried my husband would âtryâ something. She couldnât even say it to me, I had to hear it from another friend.
Needless to say we are no longer friends. Over many years of friendship down the drain. Better to keep your business to yourself and make friends through the lifestyle.
I donât live in the same city as her as we moved.
I donât think she would, I would hope she has enough dignity to keep our business private.
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Nope! She wasnât after all. Good riddance imo