It's our first time visiting an NYC lifestyle club this weekend. We are staying in Manhattan, around Times Square, and would prefer a club somewhere within a 30 minute drive.

We are in our early 30s and fairly new to lifestyle clubs.

We definitely don't mind a club that allows single men. I know it's a "turn-off" for some, but we don't mind.

We have come across the following clubs that caught our interest (listed in order): 1. Caligula 2. Loft 3. Temptations 4. Checkmate 5. Labyrinth

I realize any of these could be hit-or-miss, but I was wondering if any of these clubs are generally more popular with a younger, diverse crowd. Any guidance, recommendations, or insight really would be appreciated! TIA!