Greetings All -

We are an early 50’s nomadic ENM couple currently traveling in the USA by van - and we are craving some longer term stops over the next few months to better facilitate connecting with locals and diving into a cool community to really get to know it.

But we have found that connecting with local lifestyle communities in particular can be really challenging as transients passing through.

A lot of places seem to require insider knowledge to find meetups, parties, and cool people. We often hear buzz about locals connecting via secret Facebook groups, telegram channels, or Discord servers - but it seems like it can take months of fumbling around to even begin to find these resources and people to connect with.

Does anyone have any tips on how we can speed run the process of finding and connecting with local community?

Are there any cool cities we should target this winter that have a reputation for being particularly welcoming of lifestyle travelers?

And are there any cool upcoming events we should target that are welcoming of new visitors coming in not knowing anyone? We love the idea of finding a welcoming multi-day hotel takeover that lets us connect with people in a somewhat more casual and low-pressure environment than a club.

We have the flexibility to head just about anywhere - but where should we focus our search for stops over the next few months?

Thanks!

  - Serendipity Joy

PS: Anyone interesting in crossing paths with a pair of fit sexy nomads, let us know. Play potential or not - we are craving making more cool lifestyle friends.