Looking for advice or similar experiences.

Question, has anyone been in the lifestyle and then was with someone who wasn’t into it?

My previous partner of a year and I would go to a club in Colorado and it was so fun and exciting; especially Jenga!

My current partner of roughly six months has the mindset that sex should be talked about between each other and seems uncomfortable talking about things.

I used to feel comfortable and confident and now I feel uninterested in sex and embarrassed/uncomfortable with anything sex related. It’s not exciting and I miss the excitement of trying new things. I have tons of toys and now feel embarrassed to even bring any out or even mention them.

My current partner and I did visit a new to me club (his first time) and I was so excited to play Jenga. Well, he said if anyone touches me or I touch anyone else he’s gone; so we left and I ended up being disappointed.

Not sure if this is a deal breaker or not so now I’m feeling confused.

Any advice or similar experiences appreciated.