We've always used AFF and SLS over the years, but it's been 8 years since we had profiles there. We had decent success, both together as a married couple and when we wanted to meet people as singles on our own, but there weren't any singles or couples that we met that made it past three "visits".

I'm aware most of what swinging is pertains to the newness of partners, so it may be that a swinger sub isn't the best place to ask this, so please be kind and forgive me if I've asked something offensive. Having been out of any aspect of the lifestyle for as long as we have been, and knowing so many labels and philosophies exist now that weren't around years ago, I'm not sure where to start and figure someone here may be able to help.

Where would one look to find people that want more long term partners to satisfy their need for sexual variety?

We were the sort of people that just wanted something different than each other. If we had found a couple that could have gone years with us, that would have been great, but like I said, it seems like most people on swinger sites just want to keep churning the newness.