Rules male pers. (I would assume vice versa for most but do not know female details)
- [ ] !!!COMMUNICATION!!!
- [ ] NEVER allow feeling to get involved if any sort of feelings arise talk to partner about it and exclude that person from life indefinitely for it is you and her forever and always
- [ ] Veto rule will always be in place (when one does not agree with something or feels that something is off or simply just does not want to continue any longer any partner can choose to fully stop no questions asked at that exact moment)
- [ ] If male guest present i am always in control there will be no humiliation he is simply just an addition for us as a couple to enjoy together
- [ ] If female guest present then female partner will always be in control
- [ ] No matter who we allow to come into our journey and our sex life it will always only be the two of us no matter what or who or anything, nothing will come between us and it is you and me forever and always.
- [ ] Male partner chooses only what same sex guest can do or allow them to do things to female partner in any situation bed bar club public etc
- [ ] only can male partner choose how far to take it with same sex guest towards female partner in any situation bed bar club public etc
- [ ] Male partner will always choose male guest as I would assume that female partner would choose female guest if she would like not necessary but can
- [ ] If female partner desires to allow another female guest in only she can do whatever she pleases with female guest sexually and it is only up to female partner wether or not she allows male partner to interact with female guest if she does allow then it is once again only up to female partner to chose how far to take it with same sex guest towards male partner
- [ ] Cannot be bigger in size when fucking but at male partner discretion may allow to give head to bigger than male partner but shall be up to male partner
- [ ] Use protection when penetration with male guest unless both male and female partner agree not to but up to male first
- [ ] Use protection when penetration with female guest unless both male and female partner agree not to but up to female first
- [ ] Keep only between us and the bedroom never allow anyone else into this life of ours
- [ ] Try to not keep same guest for too long as to not get attached on either side of stranger better but can allow to get to know first a bit to feel comfortable allowing guest into our journey
- [ ] Do not allow guest into personal lives as much try to keep details about life out of it as much as possible we are mainly here just to have fun and pleasure one another
- [ ] Communication shouldn’t stop once the boundaries are set must commit to regular emotional check-ins to ensure that both partners are still comfortable with the arrangement
- [ ] Both partners need to feel safe expressing their thoughts, whether it’s excitement, concerns, or even fears the more honest and transparent these conversations are, the stronger the relationship will become
- [ ] Only male partner can chose who and the the frequency of male guest and female guest with female partner
- [ ] Only female partner can choose who and the frequency of female guest with male partner
- [ ] No one on one time is allowed from either partner with either sex guest
- [ ] Partner must always be present and engaged with activity
- [ ] If decide to make dating app for partners or any website only can male partner choose and talk to male guest first before presenting them to female partner with list of possible and then there she will get to pick
- [ ] Same scenario but for female partner choosing female guest male partner does not need to pick or agree with female guest as long as female partner agrees it is up to her
- [ ] Never say anything to guest that you wouldn’t say to partner
Considering these boundaries what are some other boundaries that would be good to possibly add? Is what I have a good place to start? And also what are some questions that she may have for myself?
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