We started this adventure in January of 2024 after some late night hot tub talks about past experiences and future interest revealed that the Wife (fiance at the time) was interested in us playing with girls together. There were some stipulations like we had to get married and I had to get a vasectomy, but this put the ball in motion.

We immediately set out to get ourselves on some apps, create some LS only accounts, and set our ground rules. For reference we are a 40s/50s couple in good to really good shape, we have plenty of pics on our profile.

We made a plan and originally wanted to start slow, maybe a soft swap with girl play, or the ever elusive Unicorn, but all that went out the window on our second trip to the local LS club. A pretty lady came up to us in the open play room and asked point blank if the Mrs would be interested in making out with her. About 15 minutes later we (she was part of a couple) were in one of the play rooms and it was on for a full swap right out of the gate. We had a blast, and it probably couldn't have gone much better than it did. This opened the door to a whole new world, and the last year has been very active.

I started a list as a way for us to keep up with names, but it ended up being a great way to recap our year, so I will run through the list with you guys.

Over the last 12 months (actually 9, she was down for 3 months do to a procedure)

We have had 19 unique play experiences with some of those being repeat visitors for a total of 27 play dates.

of those: 7 have been full swap couples 2 have been soft swap, but one of those was supposed to be full until the guy couldn't perform and called it off early. 9 of those were "unicorns", with one of those again supposed to be more, but the guy just watched. and 1 GG only play that was supposed to lead to more fun later but hasn't come to fruition yet.

that does not include the countless new friends and connections we have made that just haven't developed yet.

I do all of the communication and setting up dates, and she has final say for yes or no. It's been a lot of work, but just like any other hobby, you have to put time into it!

We are currently to the point where we have had a run of issues with the guys of the other couple not being able to perform for some reason or another. Although we know it's not her fault, this has affected the Mrs. self esteem. She is mostly into it for the ladies, but if there is another dick, she expects it to be used. She recently told me she would rather have one or two ladies we play with regularly, than a different couple every weekend.

In what could not have been better timing, the most recent "unicorn" we met seems to be interested in forming a relationship with us.

We were her first everything, and she had such a good time that she wanted to be exclusive with us. We have not officially agreed, but she seems genuinely interested.

We will see where that goes, and what else this lifestyle has in store for us, but so far it has been an incredible ride!

Here's to 2025!