I'm currently in a hotel bed with my gf lying next to me. She's curled up fast asleep and I'm still buzzing from how electric the atmosphere was. We both wore ourselves out plunging head first into the depths of hedonism last night.
There were seven of us total, 3 men and 4 women. There were 3 couples and one single woman. We all range in ages from 32-42. I was skeptical of the gender ratio initially, but it actually worked out really well. All of the women being bi definitely helped too.
All seven of us met at local swinger parties. None of us have played together until last night. We have all hung out platonically though, and are generally very friendly and respectful with one another.
The goal wasn't for our NYE party to become an orgy. Primarily, we were all just after a fun night away from everyday life responsibilities. If kinky things happened, cool, but it wasn't expected or pushed.
We started off with light drinking and toking. A short game of Cards Against Humanity served as a casual icebreaker. Leading off with a more relaxed game definitely helped people loosen up and laugh.
Dirty Jenga was next and it was a smash hit. There's a wonderful guide on this subreddit for how to create your own version, I highly recommend it.
Our Dirty Jenga was mostly full of lighter things like, "kiss the person to your left on the cheek." Very vanilla, for sure, but it got people interacting physically and that's when the vibes began to shift dramatically.
Pretty soon, people were asking to make tweaks to our Dirty Jenga. "Kiss the person to your left on the cheek." Became things like, "give the person on your left oral for at least ten seconds."
As you can imagine, as soon as genitals started going into mouths, things got out of hand quickly. One second, I was relaxing slightly stoned on the couch, and the next I had two women demanding my full attention.
I gave myself the goal of making all four women orgasm, and I'm proud to say I achieved that goal. It was wild how natural everything felt and how smooth it all went. It was everyone's first orgy, and for some their first group sex experience period.
After it ended, we all sat around on couches and the floor in sweaty snuggle piles and talked about how amazing it all was. It was so wonderful lying in a messy heap with my gf and basking in the vivacious energy of the moment.
This subreddit has been invaluable to me over this last year. In my transition from traditional vanilla man to super freak, I've learned countless kinky lessons from you fine folks.
I've learned how to move through jealousy and insecurities. I've learned the importance of ED meds, meditation, and relaxed perspectives. I've learned how essential healthy communication is and how beautiful and rare it is to have the gf that I do.
I've learned that women adore confidence, but even more so, they adore men who make them feel safe. I've learned how to tell people no, how to flirt like a pro, and how essential patience is. I've learned to take care of my body better.
I've learned how rare a group like this is, and I'm going to do my part to keep it intact and healthy.
My group is already plotting another trip together soon. This night is going to be really hard to top but we're damn sure going to try. 2025 is going to be one for the record books.
Happy New Year everyone
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